Spiritual Friendship Questions
Adapted from Campus Christian Fellowship – WWU
What was your favorite room in your house as a teenager and why?
If you were given 100,000 EUR and must spend it in one week, what would you do with it?
Name two people, other than your parents, who have really influenced your life and tell how.
There is a fire at your apartment. Everyone is safe. You have time to save the five most important things to you.Weight is no problem. What would they be and give them in their order of importance.
What do you like to do with your friends? What do you like to do with your free time?
If you were to take a vacation with a friend, who would you go with, where would you go, and what would you do?
Describe your ideal house and how you would furnish it.
What is your favorite time of day, or day of the week, or season of the year?
What is one quality you really like about yourself and why?
What are two things you find have the most meaning for you in life? Why?
If you were confined to a bed for a month and could have anyone other than Jesus visit you from history that month to talk, who would it be and why?
Who are you closest to in your family and why?
What do you think it means to be a friend?
What is one of your best memories?
The most frightening experience I have ever had was…
If you knew you could not fail, what are two things that you would like to do or accomplish in the next ten years?
What three adjectives could best describe your last week?
What are the two orthree most valuable possessions you have? Why are they valuable to you?
What is the purpose of your life at this time? Do you feel like this purpose is being realized? Why or why not?
What does it take for you to be true to yourself? Is it important to you? Why?
What helps or encourages you in your faith?
If you could ask Jesus any one question about yourself and know He would answer completely and clearly, what would it be?
What causes the most problems, conflicts, etc. in your family?
How are you feeling about going home?
What areas of your life give you the most problems?
What is one quality in your Christian life youwant to be good in five years?
What three things aboutyourfather do you like? Dislike?
If you had to describe one frustration you have had with this community, what would it be?
Where is it easiest for you to find God?
If this were the last night of your life, to whom would you write and what would you say?
Share a high point and a low point in your life.
Talk about pictures of God. What single words, images, metaphors about God are most meaningful to you?
What images or pictures do you find difficult or barriers foryou?Howdoes imagery affect your spiritual life?
Consider the Christian community. How does being in the church impact your life in God?
What experiences of meaningful community do you have? What are your needs and hopes in this area?
What do you most dream about?
What has been a pit experience in yourlife? In detail, describe how God worked through that experience.
What crowns did God give you in that experience?
If you had one wish for your c-group, what would it be? What steps are you taking now to make that come true?
What three words would you use to describe your life before you were a Christian? What three words would you use to describe your life after you became a Christian? Why the change?